Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Call statistics

During the past 4 months, my weekly average talk time with Aiden has been only 2 minutes 22 seconds, for a total of 41 minutes 20 seconds (I have recordings all but a few of these calls and call attempts). That's totally unacceptable!

         36 scheduled calls (I missed 2 calls, 1 during court and 1 during a visit with Aiden).

         18 calls never answered, never returned (50% of total).

         6 calls promptly hung up, Aiden saying “I don’t want to talk to you” (17% of total).

               1 call returned with subsequent conversation with Aiden.

         11 actual conversations with Aiden (31% of total).

His mother should NOT prompt Aiden to hang up (I have two clear recordings of this). Her words say that she wants me to have a relationship with Aiden, but her actions tell an entirely different story.

How can I possibly build and maintain my relationship with Aiden in only 2 minutes 22 seconds per week?

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